Yesterday, Karrine Steffans took it to Instagram and posted a picture of a traffic light and a street name sign, “Wayne,” captioning the photo with a line of her poem about Lil Wayne.
And most importantly, little girl, be careful not to claim a man who belongs to the world,” reads the caption of the photo.
The vast majority of the online community took Karrine's post to be taking shots at Wayne's new fling Christina Milian . Hours after the alleged diss, the gorgeous singer clapped back by posting the following.
It’s such a shame a woman has to settle for that mentally when no man has ever cared to claim that. #whatsMineisMine straight up. :) #tnt …… Guess IT IS #TBT”
Seeing Milian’s post, Steffans had to clear things up, because according to her own words, this was a huge misunderstanding, due to the fact none of Wayne's women are a factor in her friendship with Weezy, including Milian, whom Karrine believes has “deep seeded insecurity,” if she thinks the post was about her.
There is no story between Christina and me. I don’t know her, nor has she ever been acknowledged in my presence — not her and not any of Wayne's other women. None of them are factors in my friendship with him, which has been ongoing for eight years now. Therefore, I wasn't thinking about her or any of the others when I posted a line from a poem I wrote about my relationship with Wayne, years ago, and a photo of Wayne Street, here in Los Angeles. I don't think about his women in real life and I certainly don't think about them on Instagram. That's his job. My job is to continue to be his friend and to be there for him, in good and bad times, no matter who is in and out of his life. Now, if Christina was in any way convicted by an Instagram post that had nothing to do with her, that seems like a personal issue and a deep seeded insecurity – all of which has nothing to do with me,” said Karrine. She explained the situation to VladTV , adding, “I don't need to be “claimed,” like lost luggage. I have a husband. Going forward, I wish her the best of everything life and love has to offer.”
However, it appears as if her statement wasn’t clear enough, because she had to hop on Instagram again and explain the situation to her fans. This time, she did it quite good. In a well-put expression of the facts, she wrote what life really is and that not everything is about, “you,” referring to Christina.
Here's the thing about life. Not everything is about you. And if someone says or does something that has nothing to do with you but, somehow, you feel convicted by it, that says a lot more about you and your insecurities than it does about the other person. Not everything is shade. Some shit is just the truth. But not every palm tree or personal truth belongs to you. Other people have experiences, too, and their account of those experiences has everything to do with them and nothing to do with you. Confidence is key and not everyone has it. This is obvious. Also, here's the thing about men. They do what they want, how they want, when they want, and with whom they want. Just like women. Because of this, be careful when pouring expectations into people. We all have a history but look at a person's patterns. I have mine. You have yours. The next person has theirs and they all tend to repeat. Know the difference between being one option on a very long list of options and being the one and only. Be truthful with yourself about the state of your affairs and you'll never be mad a day in your life. None of us belong to each other and we all belong to God. Be well.”
Do you expect Milian to respond? Karrine unraveled the situation like a truly classy lady! Watch her closely girls, you can learn so much from her.
On a related note, did you read our exclusive interview with Christina Milian ?
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